Teringat...

Hahaha..
yes..
i still remember, when i was in  my secondary school...
masa tu nak habis sekolah dah..  i was in form 2..
one of my classmate.. came to me and ask me to accompany her to the ASPURI (ascaram puteri/ girl's hostel).. there was some benches along the way..

The girl : Finas.. kite duduk kejap..
Me: okay... letih ke...?
The girl: Takde lah... nak borak2 kejap...
Me: borak ape..?
The girl: kita nak bagi tahu ni... Sebenarnya kite tak suka Finas
Me: Okay.. kenapa tiba2 bagi tahu..?
The girl: saje..
Me: takpe lah.. awak ade hak awak nak suarakan pendapat..
The girl : Jangan lah marah kite sebab Finas terlalu lembut, senang nak senyum..
Me: itu dah diri kita tak boleh nak ubah (that time i thought because i was new at that school memanglah tak semua orang suka kan, that's normal)
The girl : sorry taw..
Me: don't be.. biasa je...

that was the first time a classmate talk to me directly...macam tu... terkejut..? not really... pelik? yes.. ape motif..? not sure..

Anyway.. the point here is that...
Apa pun orang cakap pasal kite....
Ingat, kite adalah kite... there is  no need for us to change because org kata dia tak suka kite..
If they don't like us.. then, let it be..
As long as our family and close friends kenal kita.. faham kita... itu dah cukup bagus...

and this incident taught me that bukan semua orang suka kita... and i don't have time to please people..
baik mcm mana pun kite... mesti ade sth or someone yang akan keluarkan kelemahan kite=)

so terima lah pendapat mereka dgn senyuman yang paling manis... sbb, tak semua pendapat tu btol...
it is just the matter of opinion...

be cool.. =)